Have you ever purchased something and then thought you shouldn’t have gotten it? I have! I love accessories – a girl can really NEVER have too many – purses, jewelry, hair things, sunglasses, scarves, hats, shoes, etc. If buyer’s remorse was a town, I would likely be the mayor.
I am someone who tends to give more than purchase things for myself, so when it comes to spoiling me – I have a hard time. Everyone though has a friend who can help you justify any purchase you make. Mine is one of my oldest friends – let’s call her Little Black Dress (LBD for short). I could be across the country, buy something and our conversation would go a little something like this.
Me: “Um…..I might have just purchased a Tory Burch T Stitch Tote.”
LBD: “What color?”
LBD: “Oh my gosh, think of all of the things you can use it for! It could be your carry on for a trip to see me, it could be for work and you will easily be able to dress it up or dress it down.”
Me: “You think?”
LBD: “Honey, you are money. No worries – keep it and love it!”
What would I do without her? Something else I value about LBD as well as all of my other closest and dearest friends is that they would all tell me if I made a bad purchase. So it was surprising to me when I had a conversation with a bride on a Monday about her wedding that Saturday.
We met to go over some last minute details and I asked how she was doing. She proceeded to tell me that she put her dress on the week before and was unhappy with how plain and boring it was. She kept going on and on about how plain it was and the back was just a “U”-shaped back with no decorations.
She assured me she had the “problem” taken care of. All that kept running through my mind was please don’t tell me you glued rhinestones and glitter to your dress with neon puffy paint you found under your bed from 1982!!
Then it happened! She lowered the hoodie she was wearing to reveal a huge tattoo. Smiling from ear to ear she said
“Since my dress was so plain, I decided to get this!!”
I was utterly speechless. Hoping it was a joke, I didn’t say anything. I just stood there, waiting for a camera crew to jump out and tell me I just got punked, but that didn’t happen.
“So, what do you think?” she said.
“Well, that’s permanent!” was all I could say.
Where were her friends? Her mother? Her sense of self? I am not anti-tattoo, but I am opposed to getting a tattoo that spans your back in order to accessorize your wedding dress. How about a backwards necklace, a bow, puffy paint from 1982?
I am still just surprised that anyone could go through the following thought process:
1) Try on wedding dress.
2) Boo! Wedding dress is plain and I am unhappy with it.
3) What should I do to make this dress less plain?
4) I know – I am going to get a tattoo that spans my entire back a week and a half before my wedding!
Who does that? I hope and pray she doesn’t wake up with a huge case of buyer’s remorse, because not only are diamonds forever, but so are tattoos!
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